So I hung out in cloud 9 for a couple hours today trying out harnesses. Wow it is amazing how different each of them fit. I found one that really fit like a glove. Just gotta do it, spend the money and have a harness. They said I can rent a old paraglider....one I shouldn't fly with, but I can kite with all summer in conneticut so I don't loose my mad skills. haha. If only it was pink and not blue I think I would have walked out with it. I am going to watch some para-glide lesson videos Tuesday and sit in it for a good while, make sure my stupid fused back really likes it before I invest.